To my charming anons (or one very dedicated anon),

as endearing as your colourful vocabularies are, and as pressing as your concerns are, I am in fact beginning to lose my patience with your lack of originality and your hostility. As far as I know, I have never singled anyone out and put them down, nor have I acted negatively towards any one person or group. Therefore, I find all this hatred quite unnecessary and uncalled for. However, as you have taken the time to write to me, I feel that it is only fair that I address the most recent issues you have presented to me. 

no guy would want to date a woman who acts like this. all it does it make you look like a stuck up bitch. it’s not the 1950’s anymore

I’m sorry you feel this way, and you’re quite right - it isn’t the 1950s anymore. Therefore, I find it shocking that you are under the impression that I would be so concerned with attracting ‘guys’. I don’t behave respectably to attract men; I do it for myself. If I were to change myself, my manners, appearance, interests, and habits for the sole purpose of attracting suitors or a boyfriend, that would be very pathetic of me. Furthermore, doesn’t it make more sense to find someone who likes me for me, than to change myself for someone? Would I not be much happier that way? I would rather be forever alone for being myself than be flocked by a bunch of suitors for being who they think I should be. 

I will act in whichever way I choose and perhaps one day I’ll find someone who appreciates me for the way I act and it is that person, and not you, that I am hoping to meet. Sorry to disappoint.

DO YOU HONESTLY THINK WOMEN TODAY GIVE A FUCK IF IT’S CONSIDERED ‘ETIQUETTE’ OR ‘LADYLIKE’ JESUS CHRIST WE DO WHAT WE HAVE TO TO GET THROUGH THE DAY AND IF THAT TWISTS YOUR BLOOMERS TOO BAD

Who ever mentioned anything about twisting my bloomers? I encourage my followers to act in whatever way they wish, whether that follows or goes against my beliefs. If you disagree with me, and I have had many brave followers admit it when they do, I don’t get upset or angry. It is a lady’s choice to be whoever she wishes to be and I have absolutely no right to judge her for that. It is not my business, nor of my concern, how you or anyone else acts. I think it is in fact you who has their bloomers in a twist.

And I believe that there are girls and women out there who share my beliefs, just as there are those who will share yours so, yes, I do honestly think women today give a fuck if it’s considered ‘etiquette’ or ‘ladylike’.

this blog is just ridiculous. telling women or young girls they should restrict themselves or be a certain way to be considered proper or beautiful or whatever the fuck this blog is trying to portray is wrong.

Seeing as you’re not exactly sure what this blog is trying to portray, perhaps you aren’t in a position to judge whether or not it is right or wrong. 

To all of my darling followers, I am forever thankful for all of your support and encouragement, and I am also sorry if you have, too, begun to lose your patience with these messages, but I don’t believe that they should be ignored. To my charming anons, if you don’t like what you see, you’re welcome to leave. I don’t encourage any sort of negativity here, so I’m not exactly sure what you are looking for and what you are trying to accomplish. This blog is for me, my followers, and my supporters. So let’s just agree to disagree.

To my dearest followers and visitors,

this is just another thank you that I’d like to extend to everyone who has sent me such positive and supportive messages in the last while. Even if it was sent anonymously, your messages are greatly appreciated and are, to me, a great source of encouragement.

I’d also like to leave another reminder for everyone who has submitted a question to me that your answer may be found on my FAQ page. Though I’ve made good use of the private answer feature, any questions that were sent in anonymously and could not be answered privately have been posted and answered there. 

If anyone has any other questions, comments, suggestions, or concerns, feel free to top by my Ask page. I read each and every message I receive, so don’t be shy. If you have any questions about me, my blog, lady-ness, or even just advice, all are welcome, so by all means, ask away!